Girlfrens, space and christmas-sy feelings

whew! its a brand new week! whoppie. I do feel refreshed and rejuvenated right now, and ready to conquer anything that might come by. Well, i have to admit that i'm still a little bleary-eyed from the "being-dragged-out-of-bed-on-such-a-nice-n-cold-sleep-in-day". Wish i'm in bed now though, you can't imagine how cozy it feels under the coverlets and all. Hmmm.. it feels like christmas. I don't know, i usually associate the chilly air coming in my room with a little drizzel, a little gloom to be slightly christmas-sy.. (",)

O, but well, its not christmas, yet.. and, not a day to sleep in. Literally dragged myself out of bed and made myself go to work today. Well, but no regrets. i did have a good rest over the weekend. Its amazing the extend of the crave i have for personal space! Its really therapeutic to be alone. Before you start thinking i'm an anti-social freak.. well, i'm not -as much as i do enjoy frens around me, hanging out for drinks and stuff, meeting frens of frens.. and blah-blah and blah-blah..i do enjoy being alone too, and just well, be alone doing whatever. Probably i'm that sort of person who needs loads and loads of personal space. Strange, but true.

Anyway, i manage to meet an old-old fren of mine. well, not really that far back really - but its been awhile since we met up. It was an impromtu arrangement. Well, i guess, it was a nice catch-up. How much have we changed.. and we mused at how we were before, and right now. Well, he still looks that young. and, well, i've grown older. Hahah - amazing right ?how women age over the years. But, maybe his always got that boyish thing abt him. Despite that, it was nice to meet up to catch up on all the little "gossips" that we had on the people we knew back then.

Thinking abt long-ago frens and all - well - i do wish i've still my primary school frens around - for me, unfortunately, i've lost contact with all of them. yes, not even a single one, sad isn't it. As for secondary school, frens are still there, but we aren't as close as i hope we'll be. All of them are too pre-occupied with their own marriages, work and stuff. Maybe, its a different lifestyle that we lead, so, can't really hang out much. Maybe.

But well, i am still very glad for the close frens around me, thought i've known them for less then half a century. Good frens aren't measured by the length of time that you've known them for. ;) And, kudos to people like zz-monster, shan .. you gals have been awesome. You never judge me, nor make me feel bad for even the wrong decisions that i've made. You were there with me all the way, and ride together over consequences with me. Though sometiems u gals aren't there physically, but i know, that you will back me up all the way. Which is something that i appreciate very much. (",)

everyone go *aaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww*

But really, frens are impt - girls - those of you who has already found your significant other, don't neglect your girlfrens. these are the ppl who will be there for you if all else fails. . . So, don't be too caught up romancing up your other half, and conveniently forget about the other important part of your life, good girl frens. (",)