I've been thinking of it -- yes, very much about it laterly... too much of it actually.... should I ? Could I ? Maybe I should ? Maybe I shouldn't ... hmm... do I really have the time to do it ?
Yes, I am contemplating if I should revamp my blog - honestly, its been having this face for more then 2 years? And, its high time to change -- looking kinda of boring if I might add. Its got well close to no character. Not much of a life either. Things have been so intense that its so so so so tough to blog. I hardly get to meet up my friends, let alone blog. Strangely, I haven't been thaaat busy with zillion of stuff going on. But, I just wanted to take time to enjoy what I am doing now. I want to enjoy my new home.
So... if you were wondering why I have become exceptionally 'dao'* over this period of time... well... I guess, there's always a season for something. Not that you as a companion has been made use of and discarded --- NO NO NO... God forbide that. That's not that I mean... What I mean is, one will come to a time where spending time with someone you love supersedes everything or everybody else. Not that friends are no longer important, they are always important. However, at this point of time, it is a crucial stage with you and your other half and putting in effort and time will nurture the relationship.
Thankfully, my friends around me understands the phase that I am going through, which I am thankful for. I am sure its not easy for them, and i do appreciate their understanding. (",) Thanks ladies. You especially LB, Miss No-longer-Maple-crazy and, definately, SQ.
It hasn't been easy trying to tell friends that you can't meet them up over the weekends like we always do because, I have to tend to my new home and my momoo... I know most people will snub me instantly when they hear that... Why-is-your-world-n-lifestyle-revolving-around-him- attitude... or the girl-you-got-to-get-your-own-space/time/activity .... yada-yada-yada.
I do appreciate your concern girls... but honestly, it isn't a chore to spend time with momoo at all... hmm... i don't really know how to explain this in words. So, i'm trying as hard as I can to convey this phase of life in my blog.
Lets see... there's a phrase that always says quality time beats quantity time - an hour of hardwork will always be better then 8hours of idle. I do agree to some extend in some situations, but not for all. Especially on time one spend with a love one. I use to be a believer in 'having-enough-breathing-space' from my partner. I am an advocate for that. Was. Meeting momoo has made me realise that I was off on that take. Both Momoo and I wish we had more time together every other day. We wish we had more time to do things together... or, at times, we wish had more time to do nothing together. Just simply lazing around, watching the news, reading the news paper, sive through idle magazines and mail. We just never find that we have enough time together though we try to spend almost all of our free time together. It is only during these times, do I understand that quantity time do supersedes quality time. When it comes to a person my dears, there's no such thing as quality time.... its the quantity time that's important. Have you ever hear of stories where husbands and wives goes a separate direction as they simply do not have enough time for one another. I'm sure that they have plenty of 15-min to a couple hours of quality time... but, understanding someone, is beyond what quality time can give.
I'm not certain if it makes any sense to me. But, quality vs quantity -- it never is applicable for relationships. If you want an enriching relationship - with your mum, your partner.. or anyone, spend quantity time.
Ladies, honestly, spend as much time with your mother as possible - once you get married, you'll wish you had spend more time with her. Trust me on this one. Even now - have 1 or 2 coffee lesser with your pals. Spend time with mum, watching dvds or just chit chat. You'll never regret that decision later on. :)
Here's to better and deeper relationships shared with our love ones.
(Dao = obnoxious. Not exactly what you can understanding by drawing a parallel from that english word. So, if you don'tunderstand what it means... go ask someone else lah)