Why Did I say That?

I can't remember why I've added that into yesterday's blog title. That bad people comes, relatively, in the same shell. I've got that on my MSN nick too. Its of no relevance to yesterday's blog entry. Strange that I've put that in.

Maybe when it was that very disturbing sight : a certain someone popping up on my IM. Well, true, that shouldn't upset me -- everyone is entitled to log in on their IMs. I should have simple have her nick stay deleted. I just can't explain why it disturbs me everytime there's any sort of "contact" via IM with her. Its usually her that initiates it.

She was someone I trusted and thought that I was protecting her n a way (well, its not that I'm the Joan of Arc, fighting for the weak. Its strange that I feel responsible. Maybe she's so much younger. ) But despite of that, she chose to view me in a different light, she betrayed my honesty and manupilated me in every way she could. I am truly amaze that a young girl of barely 24 could resort to such amazingly scheme-ing tactics. Judging from the strong words I'm using, I reckon you could tell how disappointed I am in her.

I h ave tried talking to her, hearing her justifications, but yet, feeling her malice from each conversation. But it doesn't seem to resolve what I feel about the whole matter - the bottom line is really all about forgetting what happened. Or, am I not forgiving enough? I have no idea. I usually do forgive people easily because I try to see their perspective, and understand why they do certain things. But, there are some people who have done things to outwardly hurt others around them to get to the very thing that they want. Through ploys, and subtle lies. And, all these, happening in a shell of a "no, i didn't mean to do that". True. It could be my point of view. But heck! I am entitled to my point of view, and honestly, from how things turn out, things do fall to a T of how I look at it for this very situation.

Of course, I am glad that things did turn out the way they are right now. To be totally honest, I wouldn't change a thing if I get teleported back into the past. Yes, I will not change a single moment. The whole event turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

As to truly what happen -- i am stil contemplating if I should actually blog this. Maybe I should.

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(warning : long entry ahead)

* - names may be changed for the heck of it

I was going out with this guy then before I knew her. Well, his not that much of a person, really, but its strange that his romancing of dinners and movies worked its charm. I did liked him alot. Its probably infatuation, because, he pisses me off most of the time with his "mr-know-it-all". But as I was saying, infatuation makes "bad people" look saintly. It was on one of our dates that we decided to head to velvet for a drink. And, there's where we met her. It was weird. She was then still a stranger, but we hit it off well. Because he, lets call him Don*, was pro-american freak. He starts to take down her contact and her friends' contact emails/numbers. This pro-american freak loves anything from the US - from the chicks, to the food, to accent. He even speaks to them in that horrid accent he uses when he was in California (and yet, infatuation made him appear saintly) So, everyone naturally hit off really well, since she was a student at Toronto. A far cry from the US really, but, physical location, its in that region, as stupid as that sounds. (Yes, infatuation makes stupid people appear lovable and saintly) Though for me, I'm there just for the music.. if she prefers to cuddle up and make friends with the both of us, its fine with me.

Don's a dog -- he got everyone's contact eventually.. Everyone ? -- yes, everyone, probably a cover up to get her number. He was on a DATE with someone else anyway (and that someone was me) ... talk about respect. (disrespect and dowright dog-ness appears saintly, and forgivable still). His plan worked brilliantly though… She actually told me that he confessed to her that he got everyone's contact just to get her's!

From there, he was dinning and going to the movies with the 2 of us girls, separately, on dates. Without me knowing, but definately wondering. For Jessica*, she knows he is going out with me too. Actually, there's nothing wrong with that, alot of people might say - its just really dates anyway. But the way I look at it, it was how he denied that he was going out with her due to some interest in her. Strange. (a lying dog remains charming and doting behind the curtain of infatuation)

Men will be men, and, lying seem to be part of their second nature. Some tap into this reservoir minimally to help make situations better for everyone. Others, tap into it extensively to save their hides, or, to their selfish advantage. This, I've seen the latter through don's, very much earlier in this whole episode. The infatuation slowly evaporated, and somehow, I didn't persue it when he told me one day that he was starting to dream of his ex girlfriend, as I reminded him of her.. HUH? Wait .. we were just going out for dinners and movies.. and nothing more. Its strange that he put it that way. But anyway, I gave him a benefit fo a doubt. Who knows right ? I wasn't upset by that, surprisingly, and I thankfully left it at that. Relieved. Maybe the infatuation was wearing off ? But i think mostly because of things happening in the background that causes this initial infatuation to come and go.

I guess I was feeilng tired with the constant probing from Jessica. She kept asking if his my boyfren and all that crap. She just doesn't take it. She was asking me about don constantly, how he was like, what he tells me, what he says about her, how I felt about him, how was his life like before she knew him. All questions revolving him, at the same time knowing full well that he and I were dating. . And I need to tell her a millioth time.

True, his not my boyfriend (and thank God for that!), but I guess, any decent person wouldn't step in in such a situation. Or, maybe, yes? - The best lady wins.. some say. The winning of the best man, or of a slimy snake for a prize. The irony of it.

In this case, the question isn't about ethics. Many would say that its a competition, and the best lady takes the prize. But for her to befriend me and engage me on a "good" friend base on this - played me for the fool and tried to bed him. That's not competition my friend, that's downright dispicable. But then again, for different people, its not about playing the game right -- its eyes on the prize. No one cares about ethics, or being deceiptive.... Different people have different rules...

Its saddening that she would actually strategise to befriend me for that simple reason of getting to know more about her "enemy" in this "competition". It almost seems that she manupilated this new friendship that I geniuely seek to build. It disappoints me that she manupilated the honesty I gave her. [guess i shouldn't be that trusting.... but then again, things wouldn't turn out the way they were if I weren't] We talked about the doubts that we had revolving don, I told her mine, and she used it to her advantage. She warned me about him - that he was a no-good. I took it with an open mind. The trust that I gave her while talking to her about how I felt, what I felt, and the concern I have over her when she told me her problems, and her distrust of don, as a male-friend. She played on and manipulated the doubts that I shared, the trust I extended to her, and the geniune concern I had for her - she used it to her own advantage in so many ways. I didn't want to be in any competition. I regarded her as a friend, not foe, nor competition in anyway….

At the end of the whole saga, she slept with him after partying with us one night. It seemed like she got it all planned out. But she didn't have to got to such an extent. I have decided by then that don is a lying dog, a mr-know-it-all, a selfish, self absorbed person and totally undesirable. It was kinda of comical that she wanted others to believe that she was prudent despite her promiscuous ways. [its not only don that the branding comes in … ] And I can't really understand why she tries to drag me along every time don and her goes out to the club, yes, even after she has slept with him. She doesn't need a chaperone anymore… If her intensions are about making a statement to me - its probably in the wrong chanel. I don't want don. I do not want to follow in miss prudent's footsteps.. In all honestly, she can have him all to herself - there's no contention. "A bastard deserves a sluts" - quote and unquote from a very good girlfriend of mine who knew what was happening. It was hilarious! We seemly toasted to that sight - glad that we were not in Jessica's shoes. (",)

I was a little surprise when after a couple of weeks later, she announced to me that don and her were together. Reason being By that time, I was already very much decided to be a bystander of this whole joke. She explained to me that it was tough to have don as a friend after she has slept with him ( errr… that's strange theory miss jessica prudent) so, the only way she knew how, was to "make" him her boyfriend. Err... okie... weird justification, really. After laughing off such a ridiculous explaination [which i don't see why she should be explaining in the first place. Because, I’ve left don far behind as “PAST” events ] I felt that everything worked out right for all of us.. They do deserved one another. (",) You may think I'm sinister by saying that. But really, I am glad that things turned out this way. They are made for one another. And, I am happy. Yes, I overlook all that she's done. It doesn't matter, because bottom line was, they deserved one another, n, I am glad. Somehow. Strangely relieved.

It was not long when this gladness turn to disgust… This was what happened :

Jessica was due to be back for school reopening in Toronto. Her final semester in school. Even until then, don has denied that he and Jessica were an item. Strange. Anyway, I didn't push it even though Jessica had told me that they were, he may have his own reasons, for what reasons, I do not know.

He planned for a trip to LA and got his best friend, a mutal friend of ours to join in. He then invited me to LA with them.... I was assuming that Jessica was going. If she was, I wouldn't mind going, as I do welcome a break from work. They could do their lovey-dovey, and I can get away from work, it doesn't really affect me. I guess, by that time, I was totally over Don. It was definitely just infatuation… as I was really happy for them, and despite the drama that took place, Jessica was after all a friend, and I felt that it would be too petty of me to resort to alienating her. With this assumption that she was joining us, I checked with her if she was going, and if she's meeting us there or flying in to Singapore for a visit first before flying out together with us (yes, her family is rich enough to afford that) She flew into a rage when I asked her about her plans for the trip. But, that was only for a moment. In a turn of a second, she was in her sweet, loveable self, apologising for that, and when into alot of explaination that Don has infact not invite her for the trip. Strange how people go to such extend to appear as NICE and docile.

As for Don - LYING POT OF SLIME! What was he up to? First, he denys that they are an item to the very point of appearing to be upset that I even mention it. Second, he invites me on a trip to LA without her???? What was he thinking ? From infatuation, to no-feeling, to utter-disgust! WTF!

To cut the story short, I was really mad. What a sneaky little serpent that Don was. As for Jessica.. well.. after that LA-trip-preps saga, I did warn her about don, and what had happen. It became clear to me that he left her out of the trip deliberately. With that, I too decided to tell her that don was denying about their relationship too. I felt that the poor girl was shortchanged, and she needed to know what was happening, for real, and what sort of trouble he is to her. It seems that his a lying cheating p*ick. I did honestly, wanted to protect her from such a bas*ard.

He eventually did own up in the end after the whole LA-trip hooha, I confronted him with a "Jessica-told me-so-you-don't-have-to-deny" conversation. I just couldn't stand him denying it any longer, and I told him off. He should be treating her properly, since he had decided that she's the one that he wanted to be with. *cheesy

Out of this whole episode, she took me for the spiteful-jealoused-person,who didn't quite make it in her man's book. I tried to tell her the truth, and she thought that I was lying. She confronted don. Not that I mind - because, there was really nothing to hide. But, he had all the answers to everything. Maybe it was true, people have different perspective in different situation. For instance, asking another girl out for a holiday trip, and purposefully, omitting one's own girlfren out of the loop was purely .. well.... i have no reason or excuse to do that

She chose to believe him, even they were absurd excuses. To both of them, I was the lying, spiteful b*tch. And all I did was try to help.

They are still together to this day. As I have believe even very early in this part of the whole cycle, they truly do deserve one another. (",)

As for me, I guess being disgusted by these 2 people has reached its biting point. Its time to forget about these two people and place them in historical archives. Archived - meant to teach and remind me of people's selfish desires, manipulative ways and most of all : To treasure the love one that is by my side. I am glad that all these things happen. Afterall, I am with the man that I love with all my heart right now. It wasn't infatuation at first sight, it isn't fleeting. It was a liking that grew into something that was much more substantial. This very man in my life, by my side, has taught me what love is when he entered my life. As oppose to what don and jessica had showed me -- a decieption point that I should be wary of. Not only in relatioships between a man and a woman, but in all relationships/ friendships

But then again, I'm not going to go about in life not trusting anyone. Till this very day, very minute, very second, I choose to give my trust to people, not because they are worth it, but because people deserves a benefit of a doubt, and, its always easier to believe someone then be suspicious of them. And, being happy is more important then casting doubts on people and taking pre-emptive measures in avoiding being hurt, because half the time, its miserable to think that the world is against you, or trying to eat you up.

With the trust I give, I receive the optimism of life, the joy of living amongst fellow people. If I fall, I have that one person who will hug me and love me and tell me that everything is going to be okie, and I know that, because, when everything crumbles, I still have him. Thank you, to that special person in my life. I wouldn't think that you'll be reading this though

xxx

I Feel Like Crap, and I think all bad peeps come in the Same Shell

I feel kind of weird today.. not exactly in the best of my moods really, but then again, I'm not behaving badly due to how I am feeling either. Its just that very sick feeling, and wishing that I am on a vacation somewhere... I miss holidays. Its been a long long time since I have gone on a holiday... taking a flight out of Singapore, being away from work, waking up at 7am in the morning, the looking-forward to Weekends... Sigh... well.. to be exact, taking a flight out of Singapore for a HOLIDAY.. not for some dumb business trip. Its scary these days when I get to know that I need to fly... on business. I literally freeze up, my heart race, and in my mind "NOT AGAIN!!!"... its a feeling of not-wanting-but-left-with-no-choice. Its a sick feeling.

I miss the beach, I miss doing absoluately nothing. I miss not needing to rush for something, or facing the computer for hours on end. I miss just relaxing and sleeping in in the mornings. God, I need a break!

I wouldn't mind going HK or Shanghai or even Bangkok for some time away from work. Hiatus. A pause in a fast forward lifestyl. I've been trying to grasp every possible opportunity of such a pause ; by NOT DOING ANYTHING during the weekends. Watching DVDs and vegitate... Somehow, it still doesnt' gives me a feel of rejuvenation. It still leaves me wanting more. Unlike after a vacation, I usually feel all ready to start the corporate rat race once again.

I'm still thinking if I should take a couple of days off to enjoy Singapore. When everyone's working, and the streets are less crowded. But then again, I do realise that the streets of Singapore is of no noteable difference, be it a work day or a week end. Its always busy...

Okie, I'm rambling. I'm in the mood to blabble. I do feel extremely restless, wishing that I'm looking forward to a vacation. But, I dont' have one to look forward to. :( sigh. I need to go on a holiday. Badly..... Sigh....

What Should I Do?

Have you ever find yourself not wanting to do something, but you have to do it ? Due to situations and influence ? There's called obligations. I am always one who doesn't belive in obliging other people, simply because, if I am at the receiving end of the stick, I honestly rather not have the other party do it for the sake of obligations to me.

I'm being invited to a colleague's wedding dinner this weekend, and yes, silly me have no heart to say NO to him. I did think of a million and one likely excuses. Excuses to be used as reasons, to get me off the hook.. I do feel bad having to lie really. But then, in such a situation, I rather have an excuse in place, rather then 1) not turning up at the last hour (which is the worse thing you can do to ANYONE) 2) telling him in his face that I'm not keen on going. Its not that this colleague of mine isn't important enough for me to attend the dinner. Well, its just simply the thing that -- I don't enjoy going for wedding dinners. His a good colleague of mine, someone whom I think I should be joining in to celebrate his joyous occassion with... BUT... I simply don't like going to weddings. Wedding dinner for that matter. His not someone who extends his invitation to anyone -- he invites only those of us whose closer, so, I'm quite flattered that his extended his invitation to me. I'm pretty new to everyone, only 11months of "living" together under the same building for over 8hours aday.... though we work pretty closely together, I never did thought that I was on the invite list. Its a pleasant surprise.... not a "OH MY GAWD-SHIRKS" type of surprise.

What should I do ? What should I do ? Do I -- (1) just attend the dinner (2) think of an excuse not to go... my dog's fell ill.. hmm.. not that good a reason.

Talking about reasons, I remembered once that I was out on a dinner "date" with a friend. Well, its not so much of a date really. What happen was that 3 of us arranged to meet up for dinner one evening. My girlfren, lets call her F, and me, and F's other friend, lets call him Wilson. I have met Wilson over the weekends at F's party in Velv, we did get along fine -- i think we had a common interest then, which was diving. So, 3 of us, F, Wilson and myself arranged to meet up for dinner after work one weekday.

After calling it a work day, I packed my stuff and made my way to our meeting place. Upon reaching, Wilson informed me that F wasn't joining us as she was working late. Okie. Fine. There's usual. We all get our fair share of working-late. So, we went off for dinner -- it was the most BORING dinner I have ever been to... besides secrectly suspicious of F's late nite working schedule.... I was trying to look amiable as Wilson was F's friend. I was sooo glad that dinner ended rather quickly, and I was about to take flight back home. To my dismay, Wilson said to go to the movies. And, the movie he suggested was some crappy show.. I can't remember what it was now.

Initially, despite the irritation that I felt, I still remain courteous and tactful, sighting that I am tired and would need some rest since its a work day again tomorrow. Wilson decided to jeer (guys, not the best thing to get a girl to watch a movie with you, honestly). At me! For turning him down! Man! What a b*st*rd! I got really fedup and I just told him, still remaining tactful -- No, I do not want to go, because I would rather be home. My dog needs a bathe. Strangely, that got him to shutup. I would reckon that such a stupid excuse made him think either i'm a bimbo, or, I rather come up with ANY excuse to get him off my back.

I got my way, and my little doggie didn't get her bathe either. :)

Shanghai Nite

It is Friday now - Shanghai night will be tonite. And I'm in a pleatted black skirt, with a fushion black embroidered top. Little red tear drop earrings, with pointy-red-shoes.. I did feel uncomfortable in this outfit, compared to my trusty jeans on a Friday. Durn! I did miss wearing "garbage" clothes...

Work officially ended at half past 3 today, but, with all the melodrama with our members, many of us left at half past 5, and, that's considered fortunate for those who made it for it. Many of us left 6pm, thereabouts, and D&D started at half past 6. And I belong to the fortunate people.... all thanks to the lovely aussie/kiwi members whose 4 to 5hours ahead of us at this point of time -- day light saving mode.

The dinner consist of a really long receiption. A lot of crowd mingling, and everyone straddling in late. There was a pretty good mix of people. From those who manage to doll up and looked like little china dolls, to some looking dreadfully clown-like in their brightly-donned dresses. The men were looking more like from Qing Dynasty, rather then the 1930s/40s Shanghai. But, I have to say, that there were some.. that did actually capture the theme very well.

Most ladies were in Cheong Sum, strangely, one hardly sees modernisation in tonite's Shanghai nite. It almost seem like all the flavour have gone out of it.. its sad that people perseve Shanghai in the 30s as mainly sasshaying china dolls in high collar and tiny waists... Where was that western costumes ? where were the furs, the long stick cigarettes, the long string of pearls ?? Those added to the lovely, bright colours and sights of Shanghai night....

Thursday's Musings.

Its Thursday today, once again, the work week is winding down to a close - somehow, the speed of time still amazes me. I remembered once, a friend of mine did tell me that time do pass by fast when one hits 25. This is so true... She was speaking from experience. She was 29. i was 20 then.

My company's D&D is happening tomorrow night, and I have yet to decide what to wear. Its a "Shanghai Nite" theme. It do really sounds very interesting and colourful, but, the thought of getting all dress up in CheePoa (or better known as the cheongsum - traditional chinese costume) wasn't that bright an idea though.

I may settle for an office-friendly-dinner-outfit tomorrow. My blue cheepoa will have to take a back seat on this. (",) I do like donning on the cheepoa, but really, I simply have no mood to do that for this event. Maybe for something else I reckon.

To Blog for Fame ?

Everyone's talking about it... and i find it exceptionally strange. But then again, we're talking about tabloid, and the "to-be-seen" culture that we have unconciously inculcated in our young ones... What not the many "idol seeking" tv programs that these young mind are watching, on a daily basis. First, there was the Local Chinese channel idol seeking program ( God knows what its called) where it attracted scores of good-looking, and not-so good looking people. It seems that being in the lime-light is everyone's dream. People have move on from such fame-seeking opportunies via such programs to Blog Writting and publishing photo-shopped photographs of themselves... It would seem almost silly to put up any pictures of oneself on the net, lest one falls subject to the perils of internet hacking, getting their pictures re-editted to reveal more then it already has ? Or maybe, people just don't care these days ... because, sex sells.

One can tell from the many sex blogs available, not to mention the many Attention-Seeking blogs one can find, not only on the Internet, but also in the National Newspaper these days. I do find it really intriging to find Attention-Seeking (A.S) Bloggers all to come in simply just 1 form-factor, and it gets replicated over and over and over...

Here's the Dummies-101 guide to be a A.S Blogger (pronouce simply as "AS-blog"). To apply to be such a blogger, kindly see the pre-requisistes.

• Teenage Girl
• barely 22 years old
• fair skin ( be it staying away from the sun deliberately, all inherited from somewhere, from someone)
• long-curly tresses. which are usually dyed light brown. Loads of geling/styling/hair spray/hair moisturiser and all that shit required. A la-barbie look.
• mighty thick layer of makeup. usually elaborately long eye lashes.. with thick slabs of eye liner, mascara involved. probably some "bling" eye makeup (courtesy of Shieshedo's new product. pardon me for using "new")
• have gotten plastic surgery, or proficient in Photoshop, or any other photo editing software

AS-Blog themes are as such :

• AS-blogs has naturally a pink-shaded background.
• AS-blogs have to have alot of pictures of themselves.. nevermind others.. just plenty of photographs of themselves, with or without clothes on.

AS-bloggers characteristics :

• AS-bloggers wanna-be have to be fond of digital/mobile phone cameras.. a flare in posing will be excellent
• No qualms about being in the lime-light all the time
• No qualms in having heavily gelled hair and make-up while out of home.
• No qualms about having critism thrown in their direction....
• Usually sufficiently IT-savy (photoshop is a MUST)
• Having loads of time on hand.

Enjoy your new found fame if you manage to get into the A.S Blogger category. Most of the time, they would prefer to call themselves the Hottest Blogger. Honestly, its just another channel of getting more attention... as to a channel of voicing out opinions... i reckon that this perspective have very much changed to something else.

To those of us who are sitting back to enjoy this media frenzy -- kudos to us -- let the show begin. (",)

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In Between Dreams

In Between dreams - Jack Johnson.

Currently my favourite album right now. I got this from the local Gramaphone Shop. Its purely vocals and accoustic strings. If you're into guitars and such, get a sample track. Its pretty cool. I call it the yellow chirpy album.. its lovely to listen to it while driving the lenght of ECP anytime of the day -- from office bound to a wind-down to a cheerie evening with your love ones at home to a joyous weekend cruise.

Lovely. (",)

Mickey Blue Eyes.. err.. Coby

Isn't he adorable ? His name is Coby, 2 months old golden retriever puppy.. I love his fur -- fluffy.... its strange as it stands on ends, but its soft, making it lovely and cottony when we pat him.

Coby's still tiny, and his in the midst of being toliet trained. Most of the time, he does it in his little toliet, called the pee tray. But, sometimes, his short legs can't get him to the oh-so-far pee tray in time - and when that happens, he'll does the next best thing he knows -- pees wherever he is, even before he reaches it.

He loves hidding under the sofa with his 2 other playmates... well, his got only 7 more months of this luxury. Very soon, he'll be too large to squeeze beneath the low living room lounge.

Notice his blue eyes ? I didn't see it till I got these pics out. His got sleepy little eyes that make him all the more adorable. His relatively sweet and adorable...

His toys : 1 white Bomber Man and 1 Red Bomber Man. He accidentally pee-ed on his little red bomber man yesterday, he seemed a little upset that he crab up his own toy. Poor Coby. Red Bomber Man will need to be bathed and soaked in nice smelling detergent and, lastly, having to get spinned in the all-frightening black-hole, or, AKA the dryer. I reckon additional sun will be necessary because he still smelt funny even after spinning dry. Poor Coby have to make do with just white bomber man, his secondary toy.

His other favourite hobby is to bite onto the beards of his two other playmates, Coco and Rascal. The 2 lovely, mild mannered schnauzers... Coco, the lady schnozzle just avoids Coby most of the time because she's genlter and prefers to be pat and cuddled by us rather then play catch with other dogs. Coco growls and tries to nip Coby when he tries anything like that.. but strangely, when Rascal's in a good mood, he lets Coby tag on this beard, and pulls him around with Coby hanging on to him.. its really hillarious when they do that. (",) I love all 3 of them.. .lovely aren't they? Simply love them to bits. (",)

Sponge Bob Square Pants

" Have you ever asked yourself what cartoon character do you most resemble? A group of investigators got together and analyzed the personalities of well known and modern cartoon characters. The information that was gathered was made into this test: Answer all the questions with what describes you best, then add up all your points at the end and look for your results..."

Thought this's pretty entertaining, especially for bored souls like me. Got it from an email sent quite a while back... "Who Are You". I was downloading the RAR compression software from the web to uncompress some files sent by a friend, and happen to come across the file "WHO R U" in the temp folder. It is a simple spread sheet that allows one to pick their preferences for the questions posted. It adds up the score and determine what type of cartoon character you are. (",) Pretty fun, so I'm posting this up here for the heck of it. I've went through the test again, and got the same results ...It says...

You are Sponge Bob Square Pants. You are the classic person that everyone loves. You are the best friend that anyone could ever have and never want to loose. You never cause harm to anyone and they would never not understand your feelings. Life is a journey its funny and calm for the most part. Stay away from traitors and jealous people then you will be stress free.

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Damn! Was trying to upload the entire spreadsheet, but I realise that Blogger doesn't allow me to do that. Argh! Okie-okie, I can't really be complaining -- its a free site -- its already nice of them to let me park my thoughts, doodles and ramblings over here... plus photos... So, let's not push it..... before I get kicked out for being ungrateful. *gasp*

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So, for your benefit, I'll just type out the questions for you. (",) Besides, I don't feel like working today... ... ssssshhhhh... hush now. Here we go....

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WHO ARE YOU

1) Which one of the following describes the perfect date ?

a) Candle Light Dinner

b) Fun/ Theme Park

c) Painting the Park

d) Rock Concert
e) Movies

2) What is your favourite type of music ?

a) Rock and Roll

b) Alternative

c) Soft Rock

d) Country

e) Pop

3) What type of movies do you prefer ?

a) Comedy

b) Horror

c) Musical

d) Romance

e) Documentary

4) Which one of these occupations would you choose if you only could choose one of these ?

a) Waiter

b) Professional Sports Player

c) Teacher

d) Police

e) Cashier

5) What do you do with your spare time ?

a) Exercise

b) Read

c) Watch television

d) Listen to music

e) Sleep

6) Which of the following colors do you like best ?

a) Yellow

b) White

c) Sky Blue

d) Dark Blue

e) Red

7) What do you prefer to eat right now ?

a) Snow

b) Pizza

c) Sushi

d) Pasta

e) Salad

8) What is your favourite holiday ?

a) Halloween

b) Christmas
c) New Year

d) Valentines' Day

e) Thanksgiving

9) If you could go to one of these places, which one would it be ?

a) Paris

b) Spain

c) Las Vegas

d) Hawaii

e) Hollywood

10) With which of the following would you prefer to spend time with ?

a) Someone smart

b) Someone attractive

c) Someone who likes to party

d) Someone who always have fun

e) Someone very sentimental

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(Which Cartoon Character are you ... )

1) a(4), b(2), c(5), d(1), e(3)

2) a(2), b(1), c(4), d(5), e(3)

3) a(2), b(1), c(3), d(4), e(5)

4) a(4), b(5), c(3), d(2), e(1)

5) a(5), b(4), c(2), d(1), e(3)

6) a(1), b(5), c(3), d(2), e(4)

7) a(3), b(2), c(1), d(4), e(5)

8) a(1), b(3), c(2), d(4), e(5)

9) a(2), b(5), c(1), d(4), e(3)

10) a(5), b(2), c(1), d(3), e(4)

Garfield (Score 10)

You are very comfortable to be with and easy going. And you definitely know how to have fun. However, you do take it to the extreme at times. You always know what you are doing and you are always in control.

Snoopy (Score 11 - 18)

You are fun and popular. You always know what’s in and out of style. You are good at knowing how to satisfy everyone else. You have probably disappeared for a few days more then once but you always come home with the family values that you learnt. Being married and having children are important to you but after you have had your share of fun times

(sorry guys, I don't quite understand what Snoopy's trait is talking about -- "disappearing and coming back to family values ? Maybe its talking about straying away in terms of principle, behaviourial issues ???? who knows... )

Arnold (Score 19 - 26)

You have lots of frens and you are also popular always willing to give advice and help out a person in need. You are very optimisticd, and you always see the bright side of things. Some good advice : try not to be too much of a dreamer if not you will may have conflicts with life

Sponge Bob Square Pants (Score 27 - 34)

You are the classic person that everyone loves. You are the best friend that anyone could ever have and never want to loose. You never cause harm to anyone and they would never not understand your feelings. Life is a journey its funny and calm for the most part. Stay away from traitors and jealous people then you will be stress free.

Charlie Brown (Score 35 - 42)

You are tender, you fall in love quickly but you are also very serious about all relationships. You are a family person. You call your mum every Sunday. You have many frens and may occasionally forget a few Birthdays. Don’t let your passion confuse you with reality.

Dexter (Score 43 - 50)

You are smart and definitely a thinker. Every situation is fronted with a plan. You have brilliant mind. You demonstrate very strong family principles. Maintain a stable routine but never ignore a bad situation when it comes.

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As much as I have blog this down, have fun, and tell me what cartoon character you are (",)

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